The Psychology of Addiction/March 2008
Addiction is a psycho-biological disorder that, like a table, must stand
upon four legs in order to support, sustain, and declare itself. The first leg
represents the genetic, socio-biological predisposition to substance abuse,
which facilitates and escalates the progression toward the substance-dependent
state. The second leg represents the out-of-control, compulsive-craving,
substance-seeking, and substance-abusing behavior that runs contrary to reason
and sound medical advise. The
third leg represents the psychological enthrallment with its attendant
justifications and denials that are needed to deceive and subdue the cognitive
defenses. The fourth leg
represents the decline in the quality and duration of life that invariably
results from this irrational substance-abusive and substance-dependent state.
Admitting addiction is the first step toward self-enlightenment
Enlightenment, the first step toward accepting responsibility
Responsibility,
the first step toward recovery.
Denial
of reality is a core human trait.
In Four Quartets, T.S.Eliot says: “Go, go, go, said the bird:
humankind cannot bear very much reality.” We spend our lives and intelligent energies diluting realities
and justifying beliefs that are contrary to epistemological evidence. We are reared to believe our dogmas and
gut-feelings without cognitively questioning their sanity. Our brains are inculcated from early
childhood with indelible cultural ideas that furnish us with our herd
personalities and ego defenses.
Hence, denial of addiction comes more natural to us than acceptance of
its ugly realities
Denial,
burnishes our egos, saves them from time’s rust, and keeps them beautiful. “I’m not an addict. I can stop any time I wish. There is nothing wrong with me. I don’t believe what others think or
say. The whole world has to be
wrong because I am right. Modesty
prevents me from saying it but, deep inside, I believe that I am a perfect
being.” That’s how addicts
commonly think.
Justifying excuses abound and the addict never doubts their
veracity. “Yes this is I; there
hardly is a process that I could not justify,” says the
Poet. When it comes to smoking, we
are all familiar with the euphemisms: “I don’t inhale. I just puff for entertainment. I only smoke with a drink, with coffee,
after meals, at night, or on occasions.
I smoke to relax; it helps my nerves. I smoke to control my weight; I’d rather smoke than be
fat. My grand father smoked all
his life and died at 96. I can
stop if I want to; once I stopped for seven years. If it doesn’t kill me, something else will and if it does,
something else won’t, so what’s the difference?” Similar excuses justify drinking and
drugs and we’ve heard them all…
What can
we do to promote health and halt the addiction epidemic that plagues our
society? There are no universal
answers because most treatment approaches, so far, have suffered from steep
failure and relapse rates. It is
far easier to raise a straight tree from seed than straighten a crooked
one. Although we should not
abandon efforts to help addicts, we should direct our most sincere attention
towards prevention, which means that we should inculcate the minds of our young
children against addicting substances long before they are exposed to them and
at a time when they are still impressionable. “The child is father of the man,” says William
Wordsworth. Our hopes to eradicate
addictions and save society from their onerous devastations depend entirely on
our children.